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Learn the difference between healthy and unhealthy/abusive relationships

Respect for both oneself and others is a key characteristic of healthy relationships. In contrast, in unhealthy relationships, one partner tries to exert control and power over the other physically, sexually, and/or emotionally. Healthy relationships share certain characteristics that teens should be taught to expect. Unhealthy relationships are marked by characteristics such as disrespect and control. It is important for youth to be able to recognize signs of unhealthy relationships before they escalate.

Reg Flags in Teenage Relationships

  •      Excessive jealousy or insecurity;

  •      Invasions of your privacy;

  •      Unexpected bouts of anger or rage;

  •      Unusual moodiness;

  •      Pressuring a partner into unwanted sexual activity;

  •      Blaming you for problems in the relationship and not taking any responsibility for the same;

  •      Controlling tendencies;

  •      Explosive temper;

  •      Preventing you from going out with or talking to other people;

  •      Constantly monitoring your whereabouts and checking in to see what you are doing and who you are with;

  •      Falsely accusing you of things;

  •      Vandalizing or ruining your personal property;

  •      Taunting or bullying; or

  •      Threatening or causing physical violence.

Characteristics of an healthy relationship

  • Mutual respect

  • Trust

  • Honesty

  • Compromise

  • Individuality

  • Good communication. 

  • Anger control

  • Problem solving

  • Understanding

  • Self-confidence

  • Being a role model

  • Healthy sexual relationship

  • Being fair

  • Loyal

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